For the next few posts, I’m going to share some archived, wedding related Q&A that I’ve accumulated. It may be just a bit off the specific topic of this blog, but I think you’ll get some great information from it anyway.
That seems so silly to spend borrowed money in that way. I am having a
hard enough time dealing with my student loans that was taken out solely
for an education, I couldn’t imagine having to pay for years for
weeks of luxury. Our day honeymoon is ending up being part of a
conference my FH has to attend for his research, so bringing me alone
isn’t that much more (and it’s money we already had saved up
specifically for this reason).
Your BIL and FSIL will have a rude awakening after finishing school and
starting out with a huge debt. Maybe it’s really the best lesson for
them though. Count your blessings that you have the sense to know what
your limitations are and not to live in debt the rest of your life!
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Tobyn wrote:
> I’ve spent all afternoon yesterday and today helping my BIL and FSIL plan
> their honeymoon this August, since I’m already in Florida and can look things
> up for them. (They are taking out a *huge* loan to do this, btw, and I won’t
> even go into my personal feelings about that…see question below…)
> It looks like they’ve settled on weeks at Disney World (poor things!) — one
> of those nights being spent in the Grand Floridian’s honeymoon suite,
> additional nights in a Grand Floridian garden room, and another week at the
> Caribbean Beach resort. After that, they’ll be coming to stay with us in
> Tampa Bay for more days. Oh yeah, I’ve helped them purchase WDW annual
> passes (cheaper than package pass rates) and airfare to and from FL, too.
> Think I should charge commission? (The hotel and park passes alone were
> almost $!)
> All of this vacation planning on their behalf has left me daydreaming about a
> fancy honeymoon of our own, and we already took ours years ago this summer!
> (Our honeymoon was nowhere near as "posh", however. Todd and I had a
> -day/-night honeymoon — paid for with cash that we already had on hand. We
> spent night in a nice honeymoon suite in New Orleans where we were married,
> and nights in a Pensacola Holiday Inn Express.)
> My husband makes almost double what the B&G make combined (even though it’s
> more expensive to live in FL than in OK) — but we’ve never felt like we could
> justify the expense of the Grand Floridian for one night during our several
> mini-vactions to WDW…much less SIX…
> My BIL is and my FSIL is . This leaves my husband and I with an
> interesting question… Is it the norm for people to take such extravagant
> honeymoons (especially when they’re borrowing the money from a bank to do so
> and haven’t even completed college)?
> Don’t get me wrong — I’d love to let loose at Disney like that — but I just
> can’t fathom paying for the vacation for years afterwards. (That’s not
> a judgement — just my personal opinion.) Just curious as to how "important"
> that dream honeymoon really is to most brides and grooms…and if you’re
> going to take it, regardless of expense…
> Robyn
> http://come.to/tobyn
> to…(address removed)ampabay.rr.com
> We learned our lesson…please
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